Mental Illness and Community

topic posted Sun, April 26, 2009 - 12:36 PM by  D.B. Cooper
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Wouldn't we all agree the mainstream makes many people sick? From isolation; humiliation at the workplace; economic insecurity; general stress? While the Medical/Pharmaceutical Complex tells us that we who suffer are defective, I think a change of lifestyle is in order. Which is where my interest in IC comes from.

Other than by winning the lottery, I can imagine no other way to escape the stress out there! On the other hand, I've seen communities hurt by members whose issues are disruptive. Even more, more than once I've heard of a commune hurt by a member's on-site suicide.

What y'all think of the topic of mental health and intentional community?
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D.B. Cooper
Indianapolis
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  • Re: Mental Illness and Community

    Sun, April 26, 2009 - 10:40 PM
    fascinating topic! mmnity as healer or as pathogen. it can go both ways.

    interestingly, my first "grown up job" was a 70s community hat was a mental health treatment center for profoundly disturbed and austitic adolescents and some young adults. I was thre as a staff member,lived communally with other counselors and the residents, had a lot of the issues and the joys of commnitynliving and ten the complications of living in a mental health center...was it more a spiritual community, a business, a non-profit. an alternative educatio n center, or a touch of a "cult"much more I can say but I'm tired and sleepy, spent today coordinating the free kitchen thorugh Food not Bombs at people's park;s 40th anniversary.meanwhile, anyone read "Back from the Land" by elano Agnew deals with the psychology,. economics, sociology, and mroe of 70s back to the land folks and the "where are they now and what happened then."
  • Re: Mental Illness and Community

    Mon, April 27, 2009 - 8:04 AM
    This is a great subject, and one that I rarely hear anyone approach. I believe that this is one of the major stumbling blocks for building new ICs.

    Regardless of legal or commonly accepted definitions for mental illness, any member of a community who is at the extreme of any issue by community standards is automatically treated as though they have an emotional disorder or mental illness. I've been involved in several ICs of different types around the US. In every community that I've experienced, the cleanest or most organized person is thought of as a "neat freak" and their opinions sometimes carry less weight because of their "fear of germs" or "obsession with order". And likewise, the "slob" in the community loses value because they "don't care as much about the community" or because they "fear authority". These are, of course, very generalized examples.

    Another example is that very often, when a person comes from an individualist/ competitive society into a group with a tribal mentality, the "newbie" often finds themselves starving for contact with others. The newbie may want to spend an inordinate amount of time seeking the company of other members. And the "older" members may feel like their space is being invaded by someone who is too "needy", and will sometimes subconsciously treat the newbie with condescension and even anger.

    My point is, that a group who plans to build an IC can save a lot of time and pain, and very often the community itself, if they plan for emotional disorders and mental illness in advance. And most of these problems can be resolved fairly easily by writing clear agreements, tolerance, deciding how the community will deal with unacceptable behaviors, making plans that include practices for helping newbies make adjustments, and other things of that sort.

    I'll say again, this is a question that every IC will deal with to a greater or lesser degree and should be planned for in advance.

    Thank you Mr Cooper for bringing it up. And I'm glad you survived your jump.
    • Re: Mental Illness and Community

      Mon, April 27, 2009 - 11:03 AM
      I am a person with bipolar-like symptoms who does not desire a diagnosis. I am one of a group founding a community in the Appalachians, and I seriously doubt I would be successful in such an endeavor without the vision, drive, and even the darkness that are inseparable facets of my condition. I do dream that our community may redefine what is "functional", so that more of my Mad friends can live healthy and productive lives while reducing or eliminating their need for pharmaceuticals.

      There are indeed some symptoms of madness that are undesirable to the self, family, and community. It is important to look beyond the discomfort and seek truth, forgetting the loose association of symptoms called a "disease" and respecting each individual's experiences as valid perspectives. Remember that psychiatry and psychology are only relevant inside our western cultural context. In this country, "seeing visions" or "hearing voices" may get you incarcerated, tied to your bed sitting in your own shit and piss, forcibly medicated unto drooling, or exposed to electroshock or other treatments against your will. In many tribes, such a person would be revered, set apart perhaps, but fed and cared for out of respect to their unique perceptions.

      For more on balancing Madness and community, check out The Icarus Project:
      theicarusproject.net/
  • Re: Mental Illness and Community

    Mon, April 27, 2009 - 1:12 PM
    To me, intentional community is more about making your unintentional community intentionally. ie, not running from "mainstream" society to make up a culture of like-minded individuals, but rather to embrace that which you have around you and allow your self to change to accommodate.

    In fact, I would go so far as to say the act of running away and creating a commune is an act of mental illness in some ways. It seems like a no-brainer to me, that if I were to up and flee society to create a utopia, and did it with others, they will be as neurotic as me, and by definition unable to deal with others in community (they already HAD others in community, they just couldn't hack it and fled). So I would expect IC members to be mentally ill in almost all circumstances.

    But none of us share a definition of mentally ill, so it's all just ad hominem utism.
  • Re: Mental Illness and Community

    Wed, April 29, 2009 - 11:13 AM
    Very interesting topic indeed. I will be addressing this issue when it comes up soon at my first committee meeting. I have just had the opportunity to start living my dreams of moving into a Cohousing facility that is rather unique. It is Cohousing, but unlike most Cohousing, it is not a buy-in community. It is run by a group out of Berkeley CA called (AHA) Affordable Housing Associates, a nonprofit for low income housing. I was lucky enough to be selected out of the lottery they had and landed here as one of the first tenants. We just had our first General Cohousing meeting a couple of Saturdays ago and we came up with several ideas for committees, including a gardening committee, parenting committee, events committee, and one that I personally proposed that we called the Heart Committee. This committee is designed to be a source for us to keep an eye on each other with regards to health, including mental health. Among our members we have single people, handicapped people and elderly people and I wanted a way for these folks to that we care about them enough to be there when they need us.

    I'm looking forward to this being a forum where I can come and bounce ideas and issues off of you folks, outside of my community here in the real world, when they come up. This is such an amazing opportunity for me, one I never thought I would have in this life time! I'm overwhelmed with gratitude right now.
  • Re: Mental Illness and Community

    Sat, May 2, 2009 - 2:23 PM
    I visited Twin Oaks in the 80's and revealed to some I struggled with depression. A member who had been a therapist told me that some members were, "paranoid of people with mental illness". Another member told me the place had been "burnt" by experiences with mentally ill members.

    I felt a bit humiliated when the membership committee asked me to reveal my past in a letter which would be made public after I left. (Every visitor wrote these descriptions of themself, for posting after they left.) I guess that was part of why I never went back. Not that anyone yelled at me, "Get out of here crazy man!" Just that I felt naked and suspect.

    How can a community even gauge a persons' state? Sometimes, seriously disturbed folks are easy to get along with, and highly functional people are twits you hate. Sometimes, people go insane after they learn a trade or profession, and continue their career after going nuts.
    How could any community accurately weigh things?!
    • Re: Mental Illness and Community

      Mon, May 4, 2009 - 5:13 PM
      I think DB is right about a bunch of things here. one need only read the past twenty or thirty eyars of carious versions of the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistic manual of mental disorders) to se that what gets labeled "mental illness" goes in and out of fashion.

      therse days it is popular in the larger world to label almost anything you don; like in yourslef or your neighbor 9especially) an mental disorder. I strongly recommend that anyone here read Dr peter Breggin, a coardcertified humanitarian MD psychiatrist who ahs been speaking out against psychiatric abuse 9especaill medication, and formerly electroshock and psychosurgery) for decades..ccheck out www.breggin.com.

      as for the guy someone mentioned today in this thread who is hoarding - some psychiatrically- and psychotherapy-inclinded people are addressing that as a mental disease now too, but that's pretty far-reaching. it;s true that some people cannot easily control their behavior, whether they are like m beighbor, who even though she has been warned by the landlord and the police that she cannot continue to sing, yell, and make all the noise she wants under other peope's windows or on the uilding;s shared porch at all hours - she just can;t quite stop herself. 9alcohol has something to do with that.) or people who are obsessively over-organized or obsessively messy - I think it really doesn't matter in the long run whether it is a "mental illness" but Ido feel a commnity has a rght to decide as a group what levels of behavior are and are not acceptable.
      it used to be, and not so long ago, that girls who wanted to study engineering and didnlt care t get married and raise children,, or men who discovered they were homosexual were labeled as mentally ill. now I meet people, regulrly, who are far too willling ot label themselves "ADD" or "ADHD" and, often, in a hurry to diagnose others with the same "disorder." (I recall clearly a social gathering at which I ried to change the topic several times, saying I wasn;t interested in arguing and that this guy was welcome to whatever identifications made his life function, but he persisted in saing"I'll bet you really do have io and don;t recognize it, and there might be a medication that would make you feel better." I finally said tat what would make me feel better was talking about anything else,and tatif he couldn;t stop badgering me, talking with almost anyone else.)

      anyway, so much of what you say here, DB, is right on target. "crazy" people., like everyone else, come in many different types and some eare easier to be around than others, and most are not any more dangerous than everyone else.

      I was thinking about Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart and about Isaac Newton agan today, and how they were total social misfits who in today's world would have been identified as
      disturbed", irged to focus less on thier "obsessions" with music and science, and probably been medicated into a functional mediocrity...and the world woul never have known t impossibly beauitful music of a Boy Wonder nor the basic laws of physics that govern the amterial universe, nor the amthematics that explains how they work...worry you went through that kind of humilation, DB.
      • Re: Mental Illness and Community

        Tue, May 5, 2009 - 9:28 AM
        "therse days it is popular in the larger world to label almost anything you don; like in yourslef or your neighbor 9especially) an mental disorder"

        Commune-ism seems schizophrenic to me... trying the same thing over and over again, expecting different results: I can't stand my neighbors, and I can't get along with them, so I'm gonna move away with other like-minded people.

        But you still won't be able to get along with them. Being able to get along with someone has absolutely nothing to do with THEM and everything to do with you. So by leaving failed relationships, you're not necessarily gonna find healthy ones. Just isolation and greater pressure to get along with your chosen neighbors. Greater pressure because IC's tend to be a bit more isolated and "primitive" than mainstream, people need to be able to rely on each other more.
        • Re: Mental Illness and Community

          Tue, May 5, 2009 - 3:08 PM
          Oh, please don't be so down on the concept of a commune. Most work in the mainstream is non-ergonomic, and often humiliating. One is thrown together with strangers who might be callous and cruel. One is often told to stand or sit exclusively, all day. Employers view you as a widget. One must conform to other's schedules for awakening and for taking breaks. One's family life is seldom respected or taken into account.

          In contrast, when I visited a commune, I found the work so comfortable. I felt FREE! And had I a family, it would have been no big deal there.

          Yes, communes may attract people who have been maimed by society, or who are just plain nuts to begin with, but that doesn't negate the whole idea. The mainstream is pretty sick, too.
          • Re: Mental Illness and Community

            Tue, May 5, 2009 - 3:11 PM
            Furthwermore, I have twice heard psychiatrists say pretty much exactly what you said. Now, I respect you more than them, and think your reasons more noble. But yes, "normal" people whio have power love to write off the whole concept as sick. Even going so far as to see it as a sign of mental illness. In fact, I saw one do just that, likely so as to use it as evidence which would allow him to meet some criteria, and be reimbursed for treatment.
        • Re: Mental Illness and Community

          Wed, May 6, 2009 - 12:58 AM

          "Commune-ism seems schizophrenic to me... trying the same thing over and over again, expecting different results: I can't stand my neighbors, and I can't get along with them, so I'm gonna move away with other like-minded people"

          well, as for me, i have alot of experience with various forms of group living, and while i;d love to find the :right" community, I may be a bit too set in my ways at this point...so for the trying things and gtting dirrenet results thing...well, some havem some haven;t. I'm friends with a fair number of folks who lived communally in the late 60s and/or early 60s and for whatever reasons, most of us are not doing it now.

          it;s way, way too late at night for me to expound on this at all. I will end, however, by saying tat some eyars ago, while in a dream group with jeremy Taylor 9who has been my friend and mentor in the dream world for many years now, decades really) - I shared a mini-dream that was relly jsut a voice intoning "schizophrenic is the label we put on things we don't understand in others."

          seems to be a lot of truth to that.

          I;m a former mental health counselor myself, and I lived as a counselor in a therapeutic community with my adolescent clients, most of whom were diagnosed..schizophrenic.

          anyway, this is an important discussion. more later!

          PS as a working person for 35 years, and just living in the world, , i can say that no matter how grounded and together and kindly we are, there wll always be people we don;t like or eople who don;t like us.
  • Re: Mental Illness and Community

    Mon, May 4, 2009 - 11:53 AM
    This has become a hot-button issue in my community.

    One of our members is clearly suffering from Obsessive Compulsive disorder that has resulted in them turning almost half of our ranch into their "collection." This person has bought up more and more shares of the community and let them fall into disrepair, full of junk. Junk piled to the ceilings. Falling on the floors. Spilling out. Under tarps. Next to broken down cars.

    But, this person gets VERY irate any time the subject is raised, so now the entire community is silent while the disease gets worse. This person is now in their 70's and I believe everyone here is now quietly waiting for him to die so they can deal with the "problem" of his collected mess.

    This has been building for the 30 years the community has existed, and this man was one of its founders. Has he ages the disease becomes worse. I am the "newbie" here - first of the new generation... and I seem to be the only person willing to take a stand or try to make a difference in the appearance of the ranch by "stirring up" these old issues again, instead of waiting for this problem person to pass away.
    • Re: Mental Illness and Community

      Fri, June 12, 2009 - 7:04 PM
      It's not necessarily OCD. It could simply be hoarding. It's a symptom of a larger problem. Here's a short article about it:

      www.associatedcontent.com/artic...e.html
      • Re: Mental Illness and Community

        Wed, June 17, 2009 - 4:51 PM
        I have some hoarding and messiness tendencies myself, and i have chosen NOT to see them as a mental illness or s synmptom of same; I come out just fine on every general clinical test for this or that mental disorder.

        sometiems we are way too quick to label one another, or ourselves. I think the advice about being respectful and treating the person with too much messy stuff with dignity is the most valuable part of this article.

        but honestly, one person;s "healthy home" may be very different from someone else's. I;d rather have a bit too much clutter but not risk cancer and lung disease from harsh cleansing and "deodorizing" chemicals around me...some of my co-workers refuse to recycle their garbage because of fear of disease...I;d rather not "disease" the earth.

        now my friend P has more of a collection problem that I do, and a lot of it is a general sense of needing to prepare for some emergency on his mind;s horizon...and he also knows it;s keeping him from dealing with the present, mundane matters.

        we all have different ways of trying to ensure that our needs, practical and mental and social,and maybe spiritual, will be met, and at least aklittle underlying anxiety about it.

        w.e all have some areas of strength and some of weakness. obviously in any form of community living it gets into what works for the group. offering loving suport to someone who is really struffling with his or her stuff seems fitting to me, jsut as when someone seems weak on reading and writing skills, we can offer to help them out with paperwork etc in a non-judging way.

        judith (I;d better go deal with my mess at home now...)
  • Re: Mental Illness and Community

    Mon, June 8, 2009 - 1:51 PM
    The community in which I live has been around for over 40 years. There have been a wide variety of people who have come through over the years who have varying mental health, if you want to call it that. You could find out firsthand how we have dealt with interesting characters, suicides, and breakdowns over the years and today.

    We are offering a course on July 17th at the Oakland Morehouse called the Introduction to Pleasurable Group Living. It's just 3 hours, mostly Q&A. You can find out more at www.oaklandmorehouse.com.
  • Re: Mental Illness and Community

    Mon, June 8, 2009 - 7:49 PM
    Good topic, interesting insights. I work as a mental health nurse and see an incredible amount of people with mental health issues.

    The original post makes a good intro; our society is insane. Even if you are a healthy person with healthy goals living a very healthy lifestyle, the mere participation in society will make you sick. This is what made me a mental health nurse, since I wanted to find out how can I help myself while I try to help others.

    For 6 months I was living in a co-housing project with a couple, both of them on welfare with mental health issues. These people, of course had much better coping skills and insight into their life and in general into the issues of the society than most people I meet within the "normals". This brings up the issue, who is actually ill mentally? The people who can't cope? Or those who can cope pretty well, but in reality they are sicker than the officially certified folks? Wasn't that obvious that George Bush or Dick Cheney is a compulsive psychopath?

    I think that anyone seriously considering joining an intentional community has to have a deep sense of crisis. A sense that something is really fucked up with our society, the level of disconnection and alienation is scary and very, very sick minds are in control.
    So, even if someone suffering from a mental health disease, the insight and recognition of this fact makes them healthier than those who think that everything is fine in the world.

    It is very important to have effective skills to cope with mentally ill people. This is something that isn't really a priority in IC's. Most IC's are looking for physical workers and tend to neglect the need for a person who have skills in conflict resolution, dealing with crisis situations etc.
    If communities have good farmers, good cooks, talented artists and so on, they should have someone who can counsel them when the situation arises.
    • Re: Mental Illness and Community

      Thu, June 11, 2009 - 4:47 PM
      I just started reading a disturbing but encouraging book called "Voluntary madness" by an investigative journalist named Norah Vincent about what happens when you "voluntarily" commit yourself to the modern mental health system. published last year.

      I don;t deny that some people are deeply troubled and thus hard to reach into a consensus reality, in community or "out on the street" or in one's family.

      but the flip side of it is that especially these days...well, always..."mental health care" is not a kindly system and anyone who wants to go into psychiatric nursing care, especially because they think they are "helping" people needs to read this journalist's accounts.

      others - read and tell me what you think! I;m only a few chapters into it.

      I used to be live-in counseling staff in a community that cared for diagnosed chronically schizophrenic and autistic adolescents with as little medication as possible (often none, mostly only in emergencies.) we made our mistakes but I still have to salute the basic humanity of our approach.

      when no one is labeled "counselor" it gets more complicated, yes.
    • Re: Mental Illness and Community

      Sat, June 27, 2009 - 5:37 PM
      Yes, our society makes many stressed and alienated to the point of being ill. Just the other day, I came across an article about "emotional adultery". Seems some folks think married people shouldn't have friends of the opposite sex who offer emotional support, etc. especially when they talk about things they don't talk about with their spouses.

      Howz that for control freakery?! Like sexual apartheid (same sex schools) religious control freaks do their utmost to keep us alienated from our sexuality, and now, want to isolate us emotionally.

      Anyway, that's not what I was going to mention. See how my mind wanders? When I hit reply, I meant to say

      people with money tend to do better. Fine sometimes. Transportation, housing, child care, all are easily accessible when you have $$$$. They can sometimes work their own hours! I think they view us as mentally ill, as a way to avoid acknowledging the societal cost of social injustice.

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